When Cooper was little, I didn’t wear him much. There just wasn’t a need for it. I had two perfectly good free hands and a hip to rest him on. I loved carrying him around and thought spending money on a carrier seemed like a waste.
Still, I eventually ended up buying a ring sling when he was about 10 months old to make quick trips into the store a little easier. And we both loved it. It was easy to put on/take off and he always felt secure.
I KNOW I’ll be wearing his brother a whole lot more, just out of necessity alone. How else am I supposed to manage grocery shopping and trips to the park alone? As excited as I am to have a new baby, it makes me cringe just thinking about juggling them both solo.
I’ve been looking into what kind of carrier I want to get for the new babe, since I probably won’t use the ring sling again until he can sit up (which Cooper didn’t do until almost 7-8 months). I eventually want to invest in a Tula, but it just doesn’t look comfortable for a newborn. Then there’s wraps like the Happy Baby Wrap, which seems like it would be easiest for the first few months, but is it a waste of money to ultimately buy both? Anyone have experience using the Tula with a brand-newborn? If this new baby is anything like Cooper he’s going to be a pipsqueak for quite a while.
The guys over at Wrapy sent me one of their wraps to try out (I’ll spare you the pictures of me trying it on with one of Cooper’s stuffed animals at 30 weeks pregnant) and while I don’t love it, it at least gave me a little insight on the whole wrap game.
The material is so soft and stretchy, but the problem is that (unlike the Happy Baby Wrap), you have the fold the super long length of fabric in half before putting it on. So by the time I get it on, the fabric is all bunched and bulky. I thought it was just user error at first since they have pretty good reviews on Amazon, but I tried a few times to no avail. I just can’t imagine trying to do that in the parking lot with a newborn and toddler that is “ready to roll!”. I’m tempted to try and cut the fabric in half, but I’m not sure.
Does anyone have experience wearing a newborn and having a toddler around at the same time? Did you use a structured carrier like the Tula right away? Or should I go with a soft wrap? Please help!